When you’ve been together for years, it’s easy to think you have it somewhat figured out. “After all these years, we should know each other well enough to dig ourselves out of this rut, right?”
In an ideal world, the butterflies you felt ten or fifteen years ago are still fluttering in your stomach. You’re hanging on to their every word with stars in your eyes, and your dreamboat can do no wrong. You can’t wait for the workday to end so you can see them again because the passion sparks up as soon as you lay eyes on your lover.
But, record scratch—things are not quite this way in your relationship.
If anything, the fluttering in your gut is anxiety. Life has taken over, and your relationship has taken a back seat.
When conversations about dreams together turn into talks about finances and caring for your aging parents, the stars in your eyes can dim.
It’s not that you’re ungrateful for your partner and the relationship that you share. Something is just pulling at you (or both of you). If you only knew how to fan the small flame that’s still there to rekindle the passion that you once had.
MEET LINDA AND KEITH
“When I met Keith, he was a ‘breath of fresh air.’ I have a type-A personality, so I found his free-spirited demeanor refreshing. It was fun then. Spontaneous dates and last-minute trips had me falling head over heels.
Keith was never good with money. I always reminded him to balance his checkbook after dinner dates. It was our inside joke to ‘balance before bed.’ When we were out with friends, I would whisper ‘BBB,’ and we would have a private laugh.
Fast forward 15 years, add a mortgage, student loans, and kids, his impulsive antics feel smothering. I must always remind him about important family activities and to pay the bills. After our cell phones were turned off for the second time, I’ve added managing the household budget to my already full plate. Between my 9 to 5, taking care of the kids, managing my parents’ affairs, and now our bills, I’m wiped out. At the end of most days, the last thing I want to do is make love to my husband.”
Hey, I’m Melanie! I’ve created the Relationship Lab Intensives for couples just like you. I have a proven track record of helping couples who felt more like roommates than life partners.
The couples that I’ve helped put in a lot of work at the beginning of their relationship. They dedicated their time, resources, and attention to their partner. But somewhere along the way, they got comfortable and stopped putting in the work. When that happens, any relationship can begin to unravel. But it doesn’t have to. If you want to learn how to have a successful relationship, you can.
The Relationship Lab is designed to help you have a long-lasting, passion-filled relationship that stands the test of time.
While our Relationship Lab Intensive Program offers a transformative journey for many couples, it's important to recognize that it might not be the right fit for everyone. This program is not be suitable for couples who are not ready to fully commit to the process, those looking for a quick fix without delving deep into underlying issues, or individuals who are not open to exploring personal change within the relationship dynamic. It's designed for couples willing to invest time, effort, and openness into rejuvenating their bond. If you're unsure whether this intensive is right for you, we're here to help you make the best decision for your relationship's future.
IMAGINE IF YOU COULD . . .
Reignite the passion you once had, even if it’s been stagnant for years
Develop the deep connection your relationship needs to reach longevity
Strengthen your union to withstand even the worst of times
Effectively communicate so that your partner hears you
Navigate the inevitable changes that occur during the transition from one life stage to the next
Are you ready to transform your relationship? Choose the setting that suits you best - the familiarity of your home for $1,800 or the neutral ground of our office for $1,600. Spaces for this life-changing program are limited to ensure each couple receives the focused attention they deserve. Don't let another day pass in misunderstanding and silence. Book your Relationship Lab Intensive session today and take the first step towards a renewed, deeper connection with your partner.
FAQ’s
Sounds great! So how does this work?
1) What makes the Relationship Lab Intensive different from regular counseling sessions?
Our program is a concentrated, 8-hour session designed to dive deep into your relationship's core issues. Unlike traditional weekly sessions, this intensive approach allows for continuous, focused work, leading to more immediate, impactful changes and insights.
2) Who is this program best suited for?
This program is tailored for mature couples facing challenges in communication, trust, boundaries, and intimacy. It's ideal for those committed to investing a full day into understanding and improving their relationship dynamics.
3) What can we expect from the 90-minute intake session?
The intake session is an opportunity to lay the groundwork for your intensive day. We'll discuss your relationship history, identify specific challenges, and set clear goals for what you wish to achieve, ensuring a personalized and effective program.
4) How should we prepare for our intensive day?
Come with an open mind and a willingness to be vulnerable. It's helpful to think about key moments in your relationship, your personal needs, and what you hope to gain from the experience. We'll provide any additional preparatory materials or suggestions ahead of your session.
5) Is there follow-up support after the intensive session?
Yes, we believe in the importance of ongoing support. We offer follow-up sessions to discuss progress, address new challenges, and reinforce the strategies you've learned. Details and scheduling of these sessions can be tailored to your needs.
6) What is your cancellation or rescheduling policy?
We understand that life can be unpredictable. We offer a rescheduling policy, provided you give us 48 hours notice. This allows us to offer your slot to another couple in need.
7) How do we decide between an in-office or in-home session?
The choice depends on where you feel most comfortable and able to engage in the process. Some couples prefer the neutrality and formality of an office setting, while others feel more relaxed and open in their own home. We can discuss the pros and cons of each to help you decide.
8) Is the program confidential?
Absolutely. Your privacy and trust are paramount. All discussions, exercises, and records from your sessions are kept strictly confidential, adhering to professional ethical standards.
9) Do you require a deposit?
Yes, a deposit of $800 is due 14-28 days prior to the session date and the balance is due 48 hours before your intake appointment.
10) Can we handle payments through our insurance provider?
We do not accept insurance plans for Relationship Lab Intensives.
If you are ready to get started or have more questions email us at relationshiplab@insightsts.com